I loved Robert Harris’s Conclave — and the film too. What stayed with me was the narrative (whether real or imagined) that those who seek leadership with overt ambition are often not the ones ultimately chosen. Instead, leadership falls to those for whom it comes almost as a surprise, those who are reluctant to seek the limelight. It’s intriguing watching the array of leaders who cross our path, be they a new Prime Minister for us here, or teachers, or rabbis. I know our new Chair Michael Lassman is currently assembling a team to think about what FPS most values in its rabbi and the whole congregation will be asked for their thoughts.
Walking the path between confidence and humility is something most of us do every day, as we navigate work, relationships and life itself. In the Musar tradition, anavah (ענווה), usually translated as humility, is not about thinking less of yourself. Rather, it is about seeing yourself truthfully and taking up your rightful place, neither shrinking from nor exaggerating your own importance. One of the clearest teachings comes from Moshe Chaim Luzzatto, who describes humility as the opposite of self-importance, not the absence of self-worth.
This week’s Parashat Eikev sees Moses offering much the same lesson: be careful not to assume that all the good in your life is entirely your own doing. Be vigilant, lest your heart grow haughty.
I find myself reflecting on this a great deal, especially right now. What contributes to our success and our happiness, both in work and in life? When should we allow ourselves to be proud of our achievements, and when should we recognise the people, opportunities and circumstances that have made them possible?
These feel like fitting questions as we begin the slow journey towards the High Holy Days, during these weeks of consolation following Tisha B’Av.
Shabbat shalom,
Rebecca
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