Death and Mourning

What to expect – death and mourning at FPS.

Death is part of Jewish lifecycle. Jewish traditions support mourners and community through this rite of passage.

We have tried to provide the information you will need when someone dies. You are always welcome to phone the synagogue for additional information and support.

1. Phone Rabbi Rebecca

Rabbi Rebecca will guide you through the practical and emotional aspects of death and mourning: 07939 117480.

2. Phone the funeral directors

Ronnie King or one of his colleagues will be available at any time: 020 8368 7453

3. Obtain the death certificate

If the death happened in hospital the doctors there will ensure this step happens.
If the death happened at home, call the GP who will be able to give you a death certificate. This is needed to register the death.
Specify it is a Jewish death for speedy processing.

4. Register the death

You need to register a death at a registry office local to you.

5. Community support

When you are ready, we have members who will offer bereavement support and care.

Please do tell Rabbi Rebecca if you are expecting a bereavement. She will offer immediate support and guidance, officiate at the funeral and prepare the eulogy. The bereaved family will discuss with Rabbi Rebecca the type of service and mourning period they require. Mourners vary considerably in what they require and how traditional they want to be.

Things to think about when you speak to the synagogue and the funeral director:

Information for the email we send out for members notifying of death.
Shiva arrangements
Do you want ritual washing “taharah”, which not everyone chooses

Click here for a leaflet providing more detailed information.

Death and Mourning

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